Foster Mom Shares Every Time This Senior Dog Was Almost Chosen
Guest Contributor
For nearly a year, an 11-year-old dog named Cooper has been waiting for a forever home. His story, filled with missed chances and quiet resilience, sheds light on the challenges older shelter dogs face when trying to find new families. With nearly seven adoptions falling through, Cooper remains in foster care, hoping his next opportunity will be the one that lasts.

Cooper’s journey began when his family moved away and left him behind at a shelter. At 9 years old, he suddenly found himself without the only home he had ever known. Months passed with no interest, until a volunteer named Victoria Vazquez walked into the shelter and asked a simple question: “Who are some of the longest dogs who’ve been here?” That question changed Cooper’s life.
Vazquez, now Cooper’s foster mom, was immediately drawn to him. She had intended to take a few long-term shelter dogs out for a fun outing, but when she met Cooper, she felt compelled to bring him home. Since then, she’s been his advocate, trying tirelessly to find him a permanent family.
Describing Cooper’s personality, Vazquez calls him a mix of “old man meets toddler.” He enjoys sunbathing, napping, shredding toys, and being close to people he trusts. Despite the comfort of his foster home, it’s not a permanent solution. Vazquez has another dog, and the two don’t always get along. She also works more hours than Cooper would prefer, leaving him alone more than he’s comfortable with. Although it’s a significant improvement from shelter life, Cooper needs a home where he can feel secure and loved full-time.
Over the past nine months, Vazquez has watched Cooper come heartbreakingly close to adoption multiple times. On seven separate occasions, families expressed serious interest, only to back out at the last moment. Each rejection was another disappointment for a dog who has already endured far too many.
One recurring issue is Cooper’s appearance. Although he looks like a beagle, he’s much larger—over 70 pounds and tall. Vazquez often finds that potential adopters are surprised by his size, expecting a smaller, more compact dog. She describes him as “a skinny beagle on stilts,” a visual that has unfortunately led to misunderstandings and mismatched expectations.
Another factor that may be contributing to Cooper’s long wait is his age. As an older dog, he’s often overlooked in favor of younger, more energetic pups. Vazquez notes that some people hesitate to bond with a senior dog, fearing the emotional toll of a shorter time together. Yet for Cooper, those golden years are filled with affection, calm companionship, and a deep appreciation for the simple joys of life.
Cooper also deals with separation anxiety, a lasting effect from being abandoned by the only family he had ever known. Vazquez empathizes with his struggle, explaining that after spending so much time in a shelter and being passed between foster homes, it’s no surprise he feels uneasy when left alone. This anxiety is one more reason why he needs a stable, loving environment where he can feel safe and secure.
In an effort to document Cooper’s journey, Vazquez began collecting screenshots of every rejection he’s received. Seeing them all together paints a sobering picture of the uphill battle many senior dogs face. It’s a visual reminder of how often good dogs are passed over for reasons beyond their control.
Despite the setbacks, Vazquez remains hopeful. She believes the right home is out there—a place where Cooper can finally settle in and spend his remaining years surrounded by love. His ideal family would be one without cats, as he has a tendency to chase them. While he does well with children, older kids might be a better fit for his pace. Most importantly, he needs someone who is home often, whether working remotely or staying at home, to help ease his anxiety and give him the companionship he craves.
Cooper is flexible when it comes to lifestyle. He would be thrilled to go on walks or hikes if invited, but he would be just as content curling up on the couch for a movie night. As Vazquez puts it, he’s a “love bug” who enjoys the simple rhythm of life: eat, sleep, sniff, potty, and repeat.
I found this detail striking: even after so many near-adoptions and disappointments, Cooper remains hopeful. His story is a testament to the resilience of animals and the deep emotional lives they lead. It also highlights the importance of considering older dogs when adopting. They may not have the boundless energy of a puppy, but they offer loyalty, calm companionship, and a unique kind of love that only comes with age.